One of the most interesting parts of our marriage is that the VIT and I have been studying together as a large part of our "alone time" for the better part of 3 years. We literally have an office with two desks, we often compromise on the background music, and we get to work. We used to slog through the work at a snail's pace and grumbled. After several years we understand that this is just part of our life in this season. We see the value in bouncing ideas off one another. Having the other proof things. Sharing frustrations. Sometimes yelling at the PK's to go the hell to sleep.
He has been my rock. My biggest supporter. My sounding board when things were thick with doubt. I'm grateful he understands not only me but the process of learning. My worries are halved, my joys are doubled. I'm a lucky and blessed person to have such a pillar of support. It definitely makes the sacrifices of sleep, time with our kids, with each other (outside of studying) and the financial commitments worth it. I hope I am those things to him.
As we embark on new terms together, it feels a bit like getting on the merry-go-round that is going full-throttle. We will find our battle rhythm here in a few days. The best part of this VIT-life is having a whole host of people to help us supplement our time. To pick up where we slack off. To help fill the void that our jobs and schooling impart on our lives. We thank you. Our community.
See you at midterms!
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